There is no way of lifting yourself out of the low valley despair, your abode of misery; no escape from your present reality than to will and want yourself out of it. You have to mentally and physically move yourself out of it. There can be no way to bliss, to your ideal, no way of living the dream, than to work your way to it.
Dream all you want, though it is all possible of being, it will never be without putting in the required work. If you go after it, go, and be ready to work:
To work without measuring time; if something is desired, what are countless hours spent in labor or in pursuit of it?
To work without complaining
To keep working through the storms of pain and defeat and resistance.
Be ready work until your objective is achieved